How can we Love ourselves?

I was never familiar with this kind of concept or thing called ‘love yourself’. I knew how to love others, animals, nature,my favourite things but I never knew I have to love myself too!!

I gradually with time realised that, I already do! The moment when the real realisation came was when out of nowhere I got a strange feeling that nobody loves me, I am bad human being, nobody’s there to listen me; these thoughts disturbed me but the other moment I knew how to comfort myself and lifted myself up!( I didn’t know I had this thing in me!) . How does it matter someone loves you or hates you until the moment you love and value yourself!?

Read books or chase the waves!!

There may be few things we need to improve and work on ourselves… If sometimes few things go wrong it’s okay! It doesn’t make us a bad person. I always say and strongly believe in is,’ Every situation has come to make us stronger as an individual; Everything has a purpose!

Stay strong! This storm shall too pass…

There are times and instances we are hard on ourselves and never really care about what wrong is happening and keep suffering in silence, which is absolutely wrong. We need to stop caring about people who just give pain and instead should focus our energy on people who really care about us.

I read somewhere,’ People who do not love themselves cannot show love to others’.

Here are few things I do in ME time and which makes me feel happy(and maybe it helps you too!)-

One of the most important thing is to keep a ‘reflecting time’. It’s a time where I reflect and go through the thoughts I am surrounded with and I dispose all bad energies bothering me and focus on those things which I really want!

Believe in yourself!

The other thing is have Treats! Treat yourself when you fulfill little commitments or achieve something you really wanted to( it can be anything… Helping your mother with her work, helping a friend, helping in grocery shopping). The treat can be of your favourite chocolate, favourite dish or anything!

Go on solo dates or trips, treat yourself with skin or hair care routine and self pampering,watch movies,dance and sing your favourite songs like no one is watching. Enjoy yourself and the small moments!

Make most of such moments…

Always remember that ‘YOU’ are important! Also let me know your thoughts and if you do things for yourself.. I would love to know!! Was there any moment you hated yourself and then realised anything later?

59 thoughts on “How can we Love ourselves?

  1. Beautifully written Sakshi! Yes we do underestimate ourselves sometimes and we go to people for filling that emptiness till we realize that everything starts from within. I am so glad that u have written on a topic like this. Many people need to know this that being ‘you’ is enough, no matter what.

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    1. Thank you for always cheering me up! Your comments just made me the happiest!! πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ’« I am happy to know that you have always learned so well from experience…❀️


  2. Very well and truly written Sakshu…nothing is more important than to love yourself…this also the only way to get self confidence too…it doesn’t matter what others think and tell about you…you are who you are…always love yourself…that is called self realisation…

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  3. Loving yourself is the most beautiful concept but very difficult as well. Hope everyone starts embracing their own flaws.
    Keep it up girl! Your topics are meaningful and beautiful and so are the blogs!

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  4. Love ourselves is the first secret to happiness by loving ourselves you can architect your fate .Love ourselves is like just taking nutrition food to get energetic by loving ourselves you are giving 100% respect to your mind ,body and peace to your soul so go ahead πŸ‘

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  5. When you give importance to people they think you are always Free.
    But they don’t understand that you make yourself available for them every time,due to love or respect.


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    1. I so agree to what you have to say! πŸ˜„ Thank you for always taking out time to read my piece of writing…πŸ’«πŸ˜„ Will always try my best to make you feel proud!! πŸ˜„πŸ’«


  6. Such a wonderful topic u have raised up ⬆️ In this blog which is love ❀️ ourselves and show your love and affection towards everyone have a confident and believe in yourself just you need to focus πŸ§˜β€β™€οΈ on your goal u need be deaf to achieve something in your life so carry on πŸ‘πŸ‘

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  7. We are vulnerable beings
    your own moods
    that attack us like storms
    and those of others exposed

    We are both in good and bad
    indivisible human dignity

    We are not the mistress
    the ruler over others
    the rulers over all adversity

    We only determine a little
    in the inner world
    the outside world

    We have to learn
    what our own soul tells us

    We have to own things
    everyday work
    perform in humility
    the daily attempt
    in everything for the better

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  8. My belief is one must be able to be with oneself to be whole. I have many friends who are unable to go anywhere, or even sit with a good book, or a good view, with only themselves as company. My peace comes from being alone, often in the woods. There I am who I most love to be. One must find, as you say, that which makes them happy and brings them peace, and relish it.

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    1. I totally agree with you! Even with me, no matter how the week has been I need to always have some me time… Thank you for sharing! I am elated to know your way of loving yourself!πŸ˜„πŸŒΈ


  9. This is the 1st ever blog I have read I generally see the vlogs but after reading this I’m now pretty interested to read other blogs also….I loved this blog and same things I have experienced before acc. to your blog
    I hope that I will get regular updates πŸ˜…
    Go On Sakshii….!!!!
    Best of luck πŸ‘

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  10. Self love is important, very important, but must be careful not to go overboard, and drown oneself in this love. I think of an individual securing themselves in an airplane for example, before looking to the care of a loved one… such an act, balances the true meaning of one’s love for oneself, and the other.

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