Do we still LOVE….?

This was my one of the biggest curiosity, since the past few months… I have experienced this many times and maybe you too…(okay telling have patience!)

There are a few people who come at some point of our life and show us care,love, affection,trust,warmth and many other emotions and they become an important part of our lives. We open up to them and share our thoughts and feelings,but what if one day…

They break our trust? They do not show same amount of care and attention they used to? They are just being fake? Or anything… When any of these things happen we get hurt, we cry, feel betrayed, annoyed and what not. We end up having trust issues! Some may say we have changed!( But anyone won’t take a moment to listen what made us change!)

When these feelings take up space in our mind we somewhere feel scared to share our feelings in fear that if the person hurts me again then!? We do not open up to people the way we used to….

Then there was this one point of time when I was occupied with number and number of questions- If they break my trust I create a barrier and stop sharing my feelings to anyone? Everyone is same?I will end up taking fears? I have to hide my feelings? I stop expressing love just in fear of getting hurt?

But then there was one day when I came across a beautiful line which is,’Bravely accept the fact that I can’t keep my heart safe any more than I can stop love from taking everything from me..’

This!

The line made me realise… That where there is love there is also getting hurt. Even roses have thorns!

We can’t create a wall around us and decline the love around…It’s the best feeling in the world to feel the love around us other than creating a barrier and denying it. It’s better to get hurt few times than being lonely….

This is something what I have realised, I may be wrong but it is my way of looking at it… If we want love around us there will be few moments where we may feel hurt but we know it’s the right person we will have courage of forgiveness! We have to accept getting hurt the same way we love…

People will come and go but always the right people will stay by your side and make it easier no matter what…

You never stop loving someone if you are hurt…

This is something which is extremely close to my heart… And I have shared it to you… I shared mine because I wanted to hear yours. How do you deal with people when you are hurt? Do you agree with me? Any different answer to my question..?

27 thoughts on “Do we still LOVE….?

  1. Wow! Actually this question never occurred to me. Such an interesting one… πŸ€” I think loving and breaking heart or trust and then moving on is just a part of our life. So we should accept reality and first try to love ourselves. Amazing blog! πŸ’œπŸ’œ

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  2. Also, yeah! We still do love! We just need to find the right person, who deserves our love and I can, without any hesitation, say that u r definitely one of those “right people”.

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  3. I totally agree on your view Sakshi, and I should not forget to mention how beautifully you have penned this down. There will be people in our life who we are close to, but then we never know what life takes us to… I love how you always leave your blog with positive thoughts. Keep up the good work. Looking forward to read moree❀️❀️

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    1. Thank you so much! Your words make a huge difference…β€οΈπŸ’« How unpredictable is life sometimes… I appreciate that you feel the positivity I put into my writing πŸ˜„

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  4. Very interesting topic whenever your heart breaks there is always a person with you is yourself so love yourself and for some people breaking trust or heart is like a game, btw amazing blog and one of my fav ❀

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  5. Hi dear first of all love is blind so luv everybody n share yr own secret wid yr dear one. Experience is gud teacher so live life full on n share to me if u hav any kind of topic may be I hv a solution or I ll got my solution frm yr experience.

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  6. When it hurts – Observe
    Life want to teach you something…
    No one is born happy but everyone has ability to create happiness.
    Don’t expect anything from anyone and you will always be happy forever…..

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  7. Absolutely true!!πŸ’―πŸ’―
    Yes!! many people came in our life,show their affection,care towards us but when they break our trust we feel like lonely…nd don’t want to trust people again…but it’s life …it all happens…keep moving….πŸ‘

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  8. Very true Sakshi!!
    Well,dear it’s life ….people come nd go but right people stays for us nd That line”That we can’t create a wall around us and decline the love around” is so true….
    Nd I read somewhere that “If life gives u hundred reasons to cry…show life that u have thousands reasons to smile!!πŸ˜€πŸ˜€
    It’s the reality we have to accept nd keep moving!!πŸ’―πŸ’―

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    1. It was great knowing that you agree with me πŸ˜„ and thank you for putting down what you believe in πŸ˜„πŸ’«β€οΈ… Just always believe in yourself!πŸ˜„πŸ’«

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  9. I agree with you. It’s good to have loved and lost and get hurt than not to love at all. It’s okay to take time to heal and push people away but in the end there’s always someone for everyone who will help us get over that phase. I mean I had a recent heartbreak and I never wanted to love again because I was scared. Now that I’ve read your blog it made sense… And thank you for sharing that. Hope we all be happy with ourselves until the The One shows up. I’m a hopeless romantic 😌 I can’t help it.πŸ˜‚πŸ€—β€οΈ

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  10. Sakshi Same thing happen to me, between ” ME & GOD”. But you can see my relation with God.

    Take positive lesson from life incident & be strong, intelligent ,smart for next level of life .
    So Sakshi ” show must go on “

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